No-Spend: Final Q&A

No-Spend: Final Q&A

It’s time to wrap this up with the questions I answered on “Afternoon Schmooze” on Rusty Mike Radio. You can listen to the podcast here.

And now, the Q&A:

You went on a spending diet. Why?

As our income has increased, our spending has increased dramatically with it. In short, we’re making too much money not to be saving more. We would like to buy a home in the next year, so a little belt tightening will make the difference between renting for another year or having a sizable down payment.

What’s included in your allotment?

What I like to think of as judgment spending – groceries, furnishings, clothing, dining out, entertainment, and anything else that isn’t non-negotiable.

What isn’t included: rent and other utilities (though we are also trying to be a bit more careful on the utilities and other flexible expenses), business expenses, medical expenses, charity, and transportation.

You actually spent a lot of money on things that one would think you wouldn’t, like NIS17 for iced coffee.

Yes – and it was money well spent. We also had a meal out to eat as a family, and I wouldn’t change that. Frugal shouldn’t be a synonym for miserly.

Did you starve?

Not at all. The reality is that NIS 1000 can probably go a long way toward supporting a family of four (admittedly, the two kids are very little right now) for a month. Meat and poultry are expensive. We spend a lot on milk – we go through 6-8 liters a week. But the vast majority of our other food items can be had for very little. Cakes can be made from scratch (indeed, it’s the only way they get made in this house – trust fund or not). Most of us aren’t going broke on buying fruits and vegetables (though I came close with the watermelon). It’s the processed junk, cleaning products, prepared foods, and toiletries that get us when we’re at the supermarket. That’s what we try and keep an eye on.

Did you actually only spend NIS1000?

Nope – we were attacked by children’s sandals. We finished at NIS 1543.

How did your friends react when you told them you were going to try this? Family?

We didn’t prepare anyone in advance, but we got a lot of positive reactions. Some people thought maybe times were tough. But most people agreed it was a good idea – some even suggested they would give it a shot.

What have blog reactions been?

Interesting to say the least. The funniest thing I noticed is that people would email me or contact me in Facebook, but were leery to comment publicly. Money is still too taboo to discuss. I was also amazed at how many notes I got saying “I’d love to do this but my spouse isn’t on board with it.” Especially when I got that note from both spouses in a couple.

Are you going to do this every month?

No. But I think once or twice a year might be beneficial.

Thanks again for all your comments, emails and feedback! Let me know if I’ve inspired you to give it a shot.

No-Spend Redux

No-Spend Redux

My apologies – that was … uh … a bit of a long week. And/or month.

I forgot that I was about to get hammered at work with a ton of new projects. This time of the year is crazy busy for me since it’s when most of my major clients go on vacation. They leave, and leave the work to me. Don’t get me wrong – I’m not complaining! I’m very glad to have it.

When I last left you, we were at the end of No-Spend Month. The final tally?

We spent NIS 1543 – well above our goal of NIS 1000, but still dramatically less than we spend every month. Our grocery bill alone is usually well above NIS 1500.

When I wasn’t looking, my daughter’s feet attacked our budget.

She outgrew her sandals. We live in Israel. We live in sandals.

Have I mentioned how insane the cost of kids shoes are?

I’m a bit ridiculous when it comes to buying for my kids. I like to get nice stuff, but rarely buy anything that isn’t on sale. Even when we aren’t trying to stick to a budget, I just can’t handle paying NIS 80 for a sweater and seeing it on sale for NIS 20 two weeks later. With the added fact that kids clothes seem to follow the same ridiculous seasons (it’s in the upper 90s here right now and I saw the first snowsuit at Fox today), I see no point in buying at full price when I can either a) buy a year ahead when the previous season goes on clearance and stockpile or b) buy mid-season and get them on clearance.

As a result, I have clothing through size 5 for my daughter, who turns two on Sept. 3. Admittedly, she is the height of a 3-4 year old, so a lot of her clothes are sized much larger. For shoes, I buy only even sizes and started at 22 – sandals at 22, sneakers and sandals at 24, sneakers and sandals at 26, etc. In short, I buy many months ahead when there are good sales and always buy from the same store to take advantage of the club card.

I just dropped the ball on this one.

And so we went shoe shopping. It was a much better deal to buy two pair (25% off the first pair, 50% off the second) than just buy one, so we broke our budget to do it. It was still a good deal (NIS 220 for a pair of sandals and a pair of tennis shoes), but we hadn’t planned for it. That and a few other odds and ends pushed us over our limit.

I’m not complaining. Indeed, buying that day, we signed up for the club card. The card got us another NIS 50 off in every month where someone in our family has a birthday (Aug., Sept. Jan. and April) and another NIS 50 off of a purchase in the next 90 days. We made a return trip about a week ago and got two pair of sandals (including one for our little man – he’s only 4 months old right now, but he’ll need them eventually) and a pair of tennis shoes for him too. We also got six pair of socks free using our customer card points. Total spent – NIS 250. Total without sales, discount card, etc. – NIS 680. Mission accomplished. We saved about NIS 400. That’s more than $100.

Today, we also got Abby a pair of Crocs – on sale for NIS 100, paid for half with Leumi card points, total spent NIS 50. Chalk one up for the good guys. I’m heading back tomorrow to stock up on Crocs for the whole family.

And on that note, it’s back to a more frugal, but regular, life.

Has anyone seen my wagon?

Has anyone seen my wagon?

As the end of the month approaches, it would be fair to say we’ve … uh … fallen off the wagon a bit.

Perhaps jumped off the back of the wagon and ran the other way might be more accurate. Like an Oregon Trail leader on bare bones rations. Okay, I’m probably exaggerating a little bit.

While I’m going to save our final accounting for my next post, I wanted to give you a preview of things to come.

Items of note that you can eagerly anticipate:

  • My dear daughter needed new shoes. Have I ranted yet about how expensive kids’ shoes are? Don’t worry, it’s coming.
  • The siren song of the mall finally won – a couple times. Darn you, Azrieli.
  • The store that stole my yogurt money has mischarged me a total of NIS 86 this month – and yes, I’ve fought to get all of it back and have won. In Hebrew. For which I deserve an award. In other news, I’m going to avoid shopping there like the plague going forward.
  • I have no self restraint when it comes to watermelon.

Our final tally is coming on Thursday, July 1. You can also join me on Thursday when I’m interviewed on Rusty Mike Radio (click the “Listen Live” button) by Nettie Feldman on Afternoon Schmooze – the program airs from noon to 2 p.m. and I’m expected to be on around 1:20 p.m. Israel time. Topics to be covered:

  • You went on a spending diet. Why?
  • What’s included in your allotment?
  • You actually spent a lot of money on things that one would think you wouldn’t, like NIS17 for iced coffee.
  • Did you starve?
  • Did you actually only spend NIS1000?
  • How did your friends react when you told them you were going to try this? Family?
  • What have blog reactions been?
  • Are you going to do this every month?

Hope to see you later this week!

A Tale of Two Chickens

It’s time for an update. The numbers are not so pretty.

When we last met, we had spent NIS 270 of our allotted NIS 1000. We were doing quite well.

You might recall that I mentioned in a previous post that we had a couple chickens and a brisket in our freezer. Funny how we didn’t actually have any meat in our freezer. Or chickens. And this is where the tale begins to go downhill.

First, let’s do the tally.

I’m not counting NIS 86 that was spent on lunch out on June 8. My husband and I forgot our anniversary, remembered, and decided to enjoy a meal out. As allowed by the rules at Small Notebook, I’m accepting that this isn’t the usual sort of spending and that one exception out of a month for a celebration is acceptable. Happy seventh anniversary!

I also got my NIS 16 from my overcharged yogurt back. Small victories.

So, what did we buy?

We were asked to host someone last weekend for Shabbat and were happy to have a guest. We also invited another guest – as we have two children under the age of two, the likelihood was that we would both be called away from the table during lunch at one point or another to take care of the kids. In our absence, at least they’d have each other.

That said, guests mean more food – two chickens instead of one, for example – we spent NIS 209 getting the week’s groceries, challot and chickens for Shabbat. It was worth every shekel and we had a really lovely lunch with wonderful discussion.

Another funny thing happened as it neared mid-June in Israel. It got really hot. Our daughter was in pretty desperate need of shorts, and we found some really cute inexpensive ones – five pair for NIS 100. Bonus – a one-piece outfit for her little brother for another NIS 5.

While we made it through the weekend, Sunday meant a relatively empty fridge. It was time for a good grocery shop – and as I had a rental car for a business meeting, it meant going to the big less expensive supermarket on the outskirts of town. While I’m really dedicated to sticking to a budget this month, I’m not willing to pass up the fact that food is significantly less expensive at the big market – Supersol Deal – than it is in town. Some examples:

  • Watermelons were NIS 2 a kilo instead of NIS 2.5-4
  • Whole chickens were NIS 10 a kilo
  • Ground beef was NIS 35 a kilo instead of NIS 45

We bought a lot and blew our budget, but we also saved a lot. Total spent – NIS 633, but it bought enough meat to last about six weeks. While not sticking strictly to our spending limit, it is certainly in the spirit of our challenge. We didn’t buy processed foods – just a wealth of good, tasty, wholesome foods that will keep up well fed for a while.

In short, had we not stocked up on the deals when we did, we could have likely kept the bill to a range that would have kept us under NIS 1000 for the whole month. As it is, I’ll be pleased as punch if we can keep it to NIS 1500 or so.

Finally, two other expenses:

  • The little filter thingee at the end of our kitchen sink faucet went kablooey and needed to be replaced. We could probably bill our landlord for it, but won’t – his good graces are worth much more than the NIS 33 it cost to replace it.
  • The husband needed deodorant. It’s hot here. This is not an optional item. Fortunately, it was buy-one-get-one at SuperPharm. NIS 28 for two.

Where does that leave us on June 16? NIS 1257 and we have almost half a month left. This is going to be interesting.

What more have we learned? It might take us more than NIS 1000 every month to live, but it’s still a lot less than what we were spending in any given month. At least now we’ll have a reasonable starting point from which to set the budget.

Lessons learned thus far

If you’d asked me a week ago what we were going to learn from trimming the budget for a month, I’d have come back with a witty reply like “how to lose weight inexpensively.” So I’m pleased to say that I am learning things that I couldn’t have anticipated.

Having such a tight budget is changing the way I shop for things, but not as you might expect. We aren’t having to do without anything, so that’s not an issue. Instead, a lot of care is going into only buying what we’re actually going to eat.

I’m ashamed to admit it, but we generally stink at eating everything we buy. We’re umpteen times better about it than we were a few years ago when we didn’t have kids, but a lot still goes to waste. Half a serving of pasta – because, really, at NIS 9 for a massive box of pasta, I can’t be bothered to worry about it. And when cucumbers are NIS 2 a kilo – about 20 cents a pound – I never fussed over throwing out half of what we bought because it amounted to almost nothing. A few shekels here, a few there – who has the time to worry about it?

Well, now I fuss and worry. Now, I’m bothered.

It’s not that things are more expensive or that we’re desperately strapped for cash – we’re actually doing really well at sticking to bare-bones spending. It’s just that throwing away NIS 5 worth of produce means throwing away enough to get an extra yogurt or a coffee from Cafe Neeman. Tossing a liter of milk that’s missed its use-by date always bothers me, but it bothers me a lot more when its cost means we went without something else. So I’m buying more diligently now – and there are pros and cons to that.

The pros are wonderful – instead of buying a handful of baguettes that we may or may not get around to eating, I’m buying as we go along so that nothing goes to waste and they’re so much fresher and tastier this way. The same is true for veggies and fruits. I’m spending more time checking that nothing is bruised or buggy since I don’t want to throw anything out. As a result, everything is really the best I can find and it really makes a difference. Of course, it also helps that nothing is lingering in the fridge – the leftovers are getting eaten, even when it’s chopped salad from the night before. And there’s less random filling of the cart – if it’s not getting eaten this month, it’s not getting purchase. Finally, I’m keeping an eye on the receipts. I’ve been to the store three times in the last week (ack – more on that next) and have been mischarged TWICE in three visits. I’m still going to fight the good fight to get my yogurt money back as it amounts to almost NIS 25. It makes me wonder how much more we’ve been overcharged when we haven’t been as diligent about checking our receipts.

And not to whine, but there are a few cons to this. Three grocery visits in seven days (and this is Israel, so the stores aren’t even open on Saturday) means that I’m spending a lot of time to ensure we get good deals and tasty food on the table. But my time normally comes at a price – as a small business owner, I cannot afford to spend this much time shopping for and preparing food. The only reason it works right now is that I’m on maternity leave (sort of).

I mean this in a positive way – when you’re a mother to a toddler and a newborn and you’re also employed full time (whether in or out of the house), something has got to give. For us, it’s usually meals – we don’t really spend anything on any other forms of entertainment, but we do like to eat out. Of course, if I dedicated myself to improving my skills a bit, I am certain I would be able to bring down the amount of time I’m spending preparing meals, shopping, meal planning and the like. It’s an acquired skill like any other – one I have apparently failed to acquire thus far.

Another thing I’ve learned – it matter less how much money I spend than whom I get to spend it with. Today, I popped my littlest one in the stroller and picked up my big girl at daycare and we headed for the grocery store. We didn’t get much, but we had a great time eating grapes in the park while the baby rested in the shade on a blanket (it was HOT here today). We had a lot of fun relaxing and snacking and then came home to pasta dinner with fresh bread and salad. We had stove-popped popcorn as dessert and a good time was had by all – on the cheap.

And lastly, a tally update:

NIS 31 spent at the grocery store on:

  • 3% milk – NIS 9.5
  • Yellow peppers – NIS 2
  • Red peppers – NIS 2
  • Zucchini – NIS 4.8
  • Grapes – NIS 7.27
  • Baguettes – NIS 6

For a grand total of NIS 271.59 spent thus far.

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